Confidence

Developing confidence in your children is something every parent should strive to do.  If children are hindered from developing self worth, they will struggle to succeed as they grow into adults.  Here are some suggestions on how to encourage the development of healthy confidence in your child:

• Don't sweat the small stuff!  Sometimes we get so wrapped up in the hectic day that we can lose it at the drop of a hat.  Be sure to assert patience when dealing with those little issues that pop up and use discretion when dealing with more complex issues.  Always consider the effect that your actions will have on your child's development.
• Be a positive example!  Work on yourself, as well as assisting your child's development of self confidence.  Show your child what self confidence looks like.  Know that you are a parent with great potential and you SHOULD be proud of your accomplishments.  Express confidence in your day to day left so that your child can follow your example.
• Make time for your kids!  Take time to play and converse with your children.  You are your child's first and most important teacher and example.  Set aside time to spend with your children and give them the opportunity to see you as that self confident adult that they will strive to be.
• Encourage your child!  Be an encouragement to your children in all that they do.  Lift them up and praise their efforts.  Rather than stifle their expressions, encourage them to express themselves...and NEVER EVER compare your children with one-another or with other children.  Last of all, encourage your child to try new and exciting things.  When they are willing to step out into a new direction or task, you will be leading them onto the path of healthy self confidence.
• Finally, give your child some responsibilities.  When you give your child some household chores, he/she will feel confident in the fact that you chose them to do an important job.  They will feel trust.  They will feel responsible.  These are healthy tools used to develop self confidence.

In using these suggestions, your child should begin to grow into a healthy self confident youth.  Continue to offer encouragement and support throughout their development and they will believe in themselves throughout life and its challenges.