Independence

Children at some point are going to want to express independence.  It is up to us, as parents, to encourage healthy independence.  Keep in mind what are appropriate and inappropriate examples of independence.  Sometimes, our children will need assistance; for example, they may be able to prepare a snack, but should not be expected to cook an entire meal.  Independence is a natural desire.  Children like to feel like they are growing up.  It is healthy to allow children to slowly begin doing more on their own.  Maybe they want to wash their own hair at age three or four; supervise the activity, but allow them to learn and grow.  Don't expect more of your child than what is age-appropriate.  Allow your child to set the pace as they grow up and become more independent.